My Commercial for Ancestry.com

We've all seen those commercials for Ancestry.com on TV. Someone who doesn't know much of their family history decides to check it out, signs up, clicks on a few green leaves, and voila! They have some distant relative who did some amazing thing. History comes to life. Well, here's my story:

A few years back my great-grandmother was about to celebrate her 97th birthday. That's not a particularly significant birthday, but then again at that age, every birthday is significant! So I decided I wanted to do something nice and put together a decent family tree for her. I looked online for resources, and Google led me to Ancestry.com. You can start for free, so I played around a bit and started building my great-grandma's tree, complete with her 5 children, 19 grandchildren, 38 great-grandchildren and 14 great-great grandchildren. And then guess what...

(Hint: click on pictures to see full size)

Wouldn't you know it... some leaves popped up! It wasn't long until I was building a family tree that extended way beyond my great-grandma's line.

I was most curious to learn about my paternal line. For one, doesn't it seem like someone who carries the same last name as you is more family than one who doesn't? Is that just me? Secondly, and probably more importantly, I have never really known much about the Rogers family, beyond my dad's generation. His father died when my dad was 19, and I had no idea of his parents. That is, until I sucked it up and paid for a subscription to Ancestry.com.

If you don't know how it works, Ancestry basically partners with a bunch of databases and records keeping sites around the world, and coupled with user input they build a gigantic search engine of information. You can find old documents (and I mean OLD... like several hundred years back) such as birth certificates, census records, marriage licenses, draft cards, and on and on and on.

You do have to be careful and scrutinize every piece of data, though. It's easy to find other people's family trees and just copy the information that they have, only to realize later that they got confused or tagged Hezekiah Rogers from Kentucky instead of Hezakiah Rogers from Virginia... and everything is wrong from there. But at the same time it is very satisfying when you find records that corroborate additions you have made to your tree. Even more satisfying is when you find out pretty cool information about your ancestors! Even cooler is when that information takes you around the world and you can relive some of that history! (More on that later...)

So, from the branch of my tree that I knew little to nothing about a couple years ago, here's what I can tell you now about the Rogers family:

Travis Rogers (1984 - )
     A living legend

David Rogers (1957 - )
     Father of Travis

Willard Rogers (1934 - 1976)
     Not THAT Will Rogers, sorry...

Charles Rogers (1900 - 1972)
     Saw his WWI draft registration card

Benjaman Rogers (1867 - ????)
     The first Rogers to come to Kansas... God bless him!

Merritt Rogers (1838 - 1908)
     Served Iowa in the Civil War from 1862-65. Mustered out at Houston, TX! Named one son    Abraham Lincoln Rogers.

Hezakiah Rogers (1806 - 1872)
     Was a physician in Iowa in the 1850s.

Elijah Rogers (1775 - 1840)
     Willed his survivors $2 each. Had daughters named Lucinda and Elizabeth.

John Rogers (1750 - 1809)
     Slave owner... I guess we've all got at least one in the family...

Thomas Rogers (1725 - 1786)
     Son Nathaniel was a Revolutionary War soldier

Captain William Rogers (1699 - 1749)
    "He enjoyed many posts of honor and trust."

Rev. John Rogers (1666 - 1745)
     Last in the line of Reverends Rogers. Served 1st Church Ipswich, Mass for 60 years.

Rev. Dr. John Rogers (1630 - 1684)
      5th president of Harvard University! (see Harvard's bio here)
Nathaniel Rogers (1598 - 1655)
     First Rogers to sail to America, in 1636. According to the Dictionary of National Biography (1885), "Rogers' descendents in America at the present time are more numerous than any other early emigrant family."

Rev. John Rogers IV (1571 - 1636)
     "Roaring Rogers"- More on him below!

John Rogers III (1548 - 1601)
     Shoemaker? Running out of clues...

John Rogers "The Younger" (1500 - 1558)
     Carpenter?

John Rogers "The Elder" (???? - 1559)

     Carpenter?

When I saw that my great(x12)-grandfather, Rev. John Rogers IV, was a pastor with the nickname "Roaring Rogers", I had to learn more. The first article I found about him had this to say:

In 1605 he became vicar of Dedham, Essex, where for over thirty years he had the repute of being 'one of the most awakening preachers of the age.' On his lecture days his church overflowed. Cotton Mather reports a saying of Ralph Browning that Rogers 'would do more good with his wild notes than we with our set music.' His lecture was suppressed from 1629 till 1631, on the ground of his nonconformity. His subsequent compliance was not strict. Giles Firmin, one of his converts 'never saw him wear a surplice,' and he only occasionally used the prayer-book, and then repeated portions of it from memory. He died on 18 Oct. 1636, and was buried in the churchyard at Dedham. There is a tombstone to his memory, and also a mural monument in the church.

 
Click here for his Wikipedia page.

We had been talking about a vacation to London, and when I read that there was a monument to my great-times-12-grandfather in a 500 year old church not too far from there... we had to go! We decided to stop in England for a week on our way back from the States this summer, and my parents were even able to join us!

Dedham is a couple hour drive to the Northeast of London. I had contacted the church a few months prior, and one of the church wardens (trustees), a very sweet woman named Suzanne, had told me she would dig up what information she could find and provide us a tour if we were to come up. We didn't have any other plans for Sunday, so we decided to make our way to Dedham for some church!

Rogers family in front of Rogers family's old church

The service was very enjoyable, and the girls even (mostly) behaved themselves. After service, we were able to meet Suzanne and a couple other wardens who were able to share some lore about Roaring Rogers. One common story was that during his funeral, the church was so packed with people that the balcony collapsed. And only by a miracle of God, no one was killed! He would also frequently "thunder the Gospel of Salvation" from the turret of the church to 1200 people in the courtyard.

Can you see the resemblance?

I'd need to work on that goatee for quite a while to match him.

Suzanne took us up the spiral stairs to the "muniment room", where the church stores their historical archives. It was an experience just getting up there, as it involved an extremely narrow, and extremely old spiral staircase. But it was worth the effort! Suzanne showed us several old documents about Roaring Rogers and other historical Dedham Church figures, and even gave us some books to keep!

The archivists at Dedham Parish Church were dedicated!

Our guide, Suzanne, reading the back of a picture of Roaring Rogers.
Lucy was riveted... mostly played with her dolls.

We enjoyed a terrific lunch across the street at the Sun Inn, then returned to the church to explore the grounds, and specifically to search for John's grave. Lucy and Ellie "helped" search.

Suzanne had told us that the tombstone was indecipherable, but we still hoped to find it. Thankfully, one of the documents she gave us provided just enough clues that we were able to pick it out!

Document given to us by Suzanne, illustrating the condition of Roaring Rogers' tombstone.
Good enough that we were able to use it to identify which one was his!

Tombstone is a little worse for wear, but it's been exposed to the elements for almost 380 years!

So, that's my story... cradle to grave. Literally. :) It has been amazing learning about my ancient family's past and finding out a bit more about the people, events and experiences that had to happen exactly as they did for me to end up who I am, where I am, when I am.

Here's the most mind-blowing part: This was the story of one of my 12th-great-grandparents. I have 16,383 more.

There are a lot more stories out there waiting to be found!

Trip Report: 10 Days in Thailand!

Day 1: We arrived in Bangkok after one of those long overnight flights. The girls did well but we were still pretty tired by the time we finally arrived at our hotel. We learned a few lessons  right off the bat: 1) USA Passports should not follow the "Visa on arrival" sign. Instead, with your children prominently displayed in front of you, push through the mass of people and head to the 'fast track' lane in immigration. Not sure if this tactic will work for people that don't have small children. 2) Bangkok highways are fast and busy, a lot like Houston, but not nearly as reckless as Saudi. We had decided against bringing a bulky car seat and I kind of regretted this. Since our travel agent had arranged drivers for us in all locations, it wouldn't have been that hard to store in our hotel room and at least one of our kids would have been a lot safer on the road.

Hanging out in the kids club at Istanbul. Love their love.

After a long flight and wait through immigration,
Lucy did NOT appreciate her safety vest!

We were very pleasantly surprised with the two bedroom suite we had booked in our hotel. It had two bedrooms, two bathrooms, a small kitchenette complete with stove top, sitting area, and balcony with a lovely view of the Chao Phraya river.

Both girls napped in the car on the way to the hotel, so our first order of business was to check out the pool!

Water baby

This may have been the first time we let Ellie wear "Arms" and she was SO HAPPY. We ordered a few appetizers (yes we will have the pork skewers and ham pizza, thank you very much!)  and drinks and we were set for the afternoon.

We had agreed to meet my mom's college friend for dinner at 7:00, so after pool time we cleaned up and some of us took a much-needed nap. We had not met Tippi before, and the only picture I had seen of her had been taken back around 1975, so it took a little while to find each other! We had a buffet dinner in the hotel restaurant and enjoyed the first of many delicious thai dishes for the week. Afterwards, the girls entertained the outside restaurant crowd  by playing a back and forth game of tag, although I'm not sure they were following standard rules.

We had a great time meeting Tippie!

Day 2: Friday was the first of many whirlwind tour days we experienced in the "Land of Smiles". We were able to book a tour through our hotel that consisted of the Royal Palace, several temples (including the most popular Wat Phra Kaew, Wat Arun and Wat Pho) and a river tour in a longtail boat. The ENORMOUS reclining Buddha at Wat Pho was a highlight- it measures 49 feet tall and 141 feet long! Wat Pho also contained about 400 other (much smaller) Buddha statues, surrounding a couple layers of inner walls.

Temples at the Royal Palace. Busy!

Jeanette's award winning photo.

BIG Buddha

Lucy checking out a few of the
400+ Buddha statues housed at Wat Pho

The river tour was a blast. We weren't sure what the girls would think of the longtail boat, but they loved it! I had previously thought that the scariest boat I would ever ride was the Dubai water taxi, but this trumped it! (This realization came when the driver asked me to scoot over a few inches before he took off from the pier, so our weight was properly centered!) We rode down the river, past the hospital where the king now resides- he is 87 years old and has reigned for nearly 70 years- and down to a spot where a woman sat, selling bread. We weren't sure what to make of it until she threw a piece in the river and literally hundreds of fish went after it ravenously! Lucy had so much fun tearing the bread to pieces and throwing it in the water... I am afraid feeding fish off the dock at Murjan won't be the same for her any more. Another highlight was buying goodies from a "river vendor", an elderly woman who came paddling (and peddling) up to us. Travis got a beer and Lucy got a fan. They were both happy!

With our Bangkok tour guide, Lek

Lucy loves her fan!

Feeding fish. Even the picture can't do justice
to the number of fish going crazy in the river!

After the city tour was over, we spent a leisurely afternoon back at the hotel pool, then were surprised by a text from one of Travis' former bosses who now lives in Singapore saying that he and his wife were in town. (We stayed with Dirk and Ruth when we visited Singapore last year... that blog is STILL in process... don't worry, it will get posted eventually!) We quickly called the front desk for babysitting service, and met up with the Perrins for dinner and a night on the town. Walking around the Patpong area was quite the education and we got to see 'real' Bangkok that night.

Muy Thai fight, anyone? Sure, why not!
This was actually on Travis' Thailand bucket list.
The fighter in our corner lost.
Notice his kid standing at the turnbuckle...

Jeanette and Ruth scoping out some quality handbags.
Travis was more interested in the amazing fluorescent tiger
velvet painting in the background.

I think Dirk approved...

Unfortunately when we returned back to our room at 1:30 am the babysitter was falling asleep on the couch and LUCY WAS STILL AWAKE. The one specific direction we had given her was to get the girls to bed by 9:00 at the latest. I know Lucy can be difficult to put to bed, but in what universe is it okay for a 3 year old to stay up past 1 am??? We were livid that the babysitter allowed that to happen and as we were checking out the next morning (and Lucy was a MESS) the hotel promised us they would upgrade our room for our stay at the end of our trip to try and make up for the snafu. At this point I didn't feel like anything would help since there was no way to make up for Lucy's 5 hours of missing sleep, but we accepted and moved on to the airport for our flight to Chiang Mai.

Day 3
We had an early flight out of Bangkok to Chiang Mai. For better or worse the plane was delayed an hour, but I was okay with this because we had skipped breakfast at the hotel. The airline then unexpectedly gave us vouchers for food at the airport! When was the last time a domestic American airline gave you a breakfast voucher for a flight delayed one hour? After breakfast we made our way to the gate, where we discovered that all the domestic Thai airlines have lounges for their passengers to hang out in before their flight complete with food, drink, and play room. Two big thumbs up for Bangkok Air from us!

Our tour guide met us as we exited the airport in Chiang Mai. Originally we were supposed to go straight to a tour but since our flight was delayed we opted to go straight to the hotel and rest up.

Pool at Chiang Mai Shangri La. Nice elephant in the background.

We met our guide at 5 to go up the mountain to visit Chiang Mai's most prized temple, Wat Phra That Doi Suthep. I really enjoyed seeing the temple in the evening light. The weather was perfect and the crowds were thin. I'm not sure how often the monks say their chant, but it was beautiful and a neat experience to be there to hear it.

A long staircase leads away from the temple area down the mountain to the road. Our guide seemed a little unsure whether we could handle the 300 steps down. If you read our Greece post you might remember that we hiked both up and down a 900 step fortress there, so going down 300 steps didn't sound bad at all! And it wasn't. We really enjoyed seeing the temple and countryside from this perspective. And I had a chance to practice some new photography skills. But please don't judge hardly, it's really hard to take good pictures with a baby hanging from your front, punching you in the neck, and pulling your hair.

300 steps? No big deal...

Our guide suggested a restaurant called "Whole Earth" for dinner. I'm not sure we would have chosen it on our own, as it does cater to tourists, but it was an excellent suggestion. The restaurant was beautiful, the evening ambiance amazing, and the food was fantastic. We ordered the "Tom Koh Gai" soup (or something like that), a soup of chicken and vegetables in a coconut milk broth, and it was the best soup we've ever had! So delicious! We also had the best pork satay of our entire stay. The only thing that soured our experience at all was a crotchety elderly American couple nearby kept loudly judging our parenting since we were letting the girls play with the iPad and our phones. Then when we started chatting with them we learned they were from Colorado... but they didn't know where Kansas was. I realized my 3 year old knows more about geography then they do. But I'm still a little miffed. The moral of this story is: Don't judge other parents!!!

View of the Whole Earth patio from our seats.
Beautiful and delicious!

Day 4
After a lovely signature Shangri-La breakfast (extra crispy bacon! made to order omelets!) our guide took us on a tour of Chiang Mai. First stop was the local fruit, vegetable, seafood, and takeaway food market. I'm not sure of a better way to describe that! The variety was amazing! We didn't buy anything since we'd just eaten breakfast but really enjoyed seeing everything that was for sale.

Sawadika from Shangi-La!

Small part of a massive market... I can smell it now...

Two sleeping babies, and one lady on a motorcycle.

Next, our guide took us to a few temples in Chiang Mai, including his family's temple! It was neat to see something so personal for him. It was really hot and I couldn't stand the thought of wearing anything more than shorts that day so I didn't get to see the inside of most of the temples, but Travis took some good pictures:

For lunch our guide again took us to a more touristy restaurant, but the food was delicious and they had spaghetti on the menu which thrilled our daughters who subsist on a diet of spaghetti and ice cream. (Judgey parents take note: exposing your children to a variety of food early on apparently has NO impact on how picky or not picky a child will be. A three year old tends to act like a three year old regardless!) The restaurant had an outdoor eating area that surrounded a pond. Both girls really enjoyed walking around the pond. The highlight was definitely when a restaurant worker brought out some leftover bread to throw to the fish in the pond. What a thrill!

After lunch our guide took us to the "Heritage Village", an area where local artisans display their talents at making silver jewelry and silk. Unfortunately the silversmiths were not working on Saturday, but the silk loomers were! They had a really neat display with moths laying eggs that turn into silk worms, that build cocoons. Then a worker unravels the cocoon and turns it into a skien of silk yarn, where other workers can weave the silk yarn into fabrics. Unfortunately I did not have my camera with me so no pictures. But take my word for it, it was cool to see! Ellie was taking her best nap of the whole trip at this time too so sadly I couldn't try on any of the amazing silk clothes they were selling. We opted to head back to the hotel at this point and relax before the guide picked us up again to go to the night market.

The night market was overwhelming in every direction. So many people! It was blocks and blocks of stalls selling everything you could imagine. I wish we could have taken more pictures... but there was too much going on (and i was still getting punched in the throat by the toddler on my front) to be able to take some good ones. Travis did get a few on his phone. We had a nice dinner at a restaurant on the street, again recommended by our guide (sometimes the street food can be of questionable quality I suppose) and after that we were ready to call it a day.

Once again... small part of a massive market!
This one was several streets wide and long.

Day 5
We woke up to the smell of a campfire and a very hazy day! We learned that this time of year the hill people to the north in China burn their hills and fields and smoke encompasses the entire region.

Our flight to Krabi didn't depart until around 6 so we had a mostly free day. We had a leisurely breakfast, packed our bags, then hired a babysitter so Travis and I could get one of those famous Thai massages and lunch. The going rate for the massage parlors on the street was 200 Baht for an hour, which is about $6! The massage was a lot different than what we'd experienced before but it was very good. It was so nice to get all those knots worked out of my legs from carrying Ellie around all week! Wish we could have done this more often but we packed way too many things into our itinerary for this.

 
After our massage we stopped at a local restaurant for lunch. Again the food was amazing and not very expensive. We learned from another diner that the chef had previously worked for a large hotel and decided to open his own place, and we were glad he did!

Anything drank straight from a coconut is good.

Forgot to take a picture before consuming his leg. Oops!

After lunch I took the girls to the playroom for awhile until we were ready to catch our flight.

This time we were flying Air Asia. We didn't have very high expectations as we knew this was the budget airline for the area (and we tried to push all of the recent tragic crashes out of our minds), but they were sufficiently lowered when we received our boarding passes... that we couldn't distinguish from a receipt!

The flight was fine and comparable to any domestic US airline where you have to pay for your snack. At least we didn't have to pay for our bags! We arrived at our hotel in Krabi about 8:00, giving us just enough time to order some room service for dinner and bathe the girls before we crashed into bed.

Day 6
We had one more tour arranged, this time to see the town of Krabi and surrounding area.

Lucy and the Krabi crab. Look out behind you!!!

Ellie fell asleep in the carrier again so we opted out of walking around the town (it was hot!) and went to the natural landmark the area is known for, a bed of freshwater fossils on the edge of the sea.

Believe it or not, each of these rocks is actually made up of fossils.
Pretty incredible sight to see!

Just a pretty piece of Thailand

...and that's our Ellie. :)

Our guide took us to the town of Ao Nang for lunch, an adorable little beach-side town with lots of shops and restaurants. We took the guides recommendation for a restaurant and also ordered what the fellow at the door recommended. Again we felt like this was some of the best food of the trip! The beef with basil was incredible!

After lunch we headed back to our hotel for some much needed downtime. We stopped to see some elephants but Lucy had fallen asleep. We took a couple pictures from afar and our guide said we could come back on our way to the airport. We sent the girls to the kids club and Travis and I headed to the pool to float around by ourselves for a couple hours. I especially liked they let us take our drinks on our float! So relaxing!

We headed into the town of Nong Thale for dinner, and again had a delicious dinner. It was a little too far from our hotel to walk, so we took a Tuk-Tuk back to the hotel. And naturally all Lucy cared about was playing the iPad!

Day 7
This was our only free day of the trip... and crazy us thought we hadn't been busy enough, so we booked the kids club for the girls and Travis and I took an excursion to nearby Hong island for some kayaking, snorkeling and sun. Hong is very popular with tourists coming in from Ao Nang, but thanks to our resort being located so nearby we were able to beat the crowd and stay after most had left. We really enjoyed our down day and made some new Chinese friends.

The interior parts of the island had a lot of monitor lizards.
Got to keep your eyes out!!!

Picturesque view from the beach.
This is before most of the tourists made it in from Ao Nang.

Kayak ride to the secret lagoon? Why not!

Friendly folks on a longtail boat.

"Sure, we can make it under there... no problem!"
This is the face of a man who is relieved that he was not just
simultaneously crushed and drowned.

LOTS of fish... and definitely not scared of people!
Some kids were feeding them hot dogs.

  The girls were really happy to see us after we got back from the island, and even though we had spent all day in our swim suits we had promised the girls we'd take them to the pool. The girls enjoyed the kids pool, especially when we let them eat some chocolate ice cream at the pool bar. They have no idea how good they have it!

"One tall Chang and one small chocolate milk, please."

Sharing, actually sharing, ice cream!

Ellie having a blast practicing her back float

We decided to stay in and eat at one of the hotel restaurants for dinner. Lucy was so tired she almost fell asleep eating the bread! After dinner we got the girls ready for bed and then started packing as we were scheduled to be off again the next morning.

Day 8
Unfortunately our check out process took longer than expected so we didn't have time to see the elephants. We were back on Bangkok air for the last leg of the trip and arrived at our hotel by 2pm. They were serious about upgrading us--they moved us to a 2 bedroom, 2600 square foot suite on the 35th floor! The view of Bangkok from all FOUR of our balconies was incredible. At this point in the trip it felt like the babysitting snafu that made this room possible was worth it.

That one on the verrry top? Yeah, that's ours.

We took the girls to the pool for awhile and decided since we had a whole dining room the best thing to do for dinner would be to order room service!

After dinner we were planning to meet up with John and Shelly, friends from Saudi, at the SkyBar (made famous in the movie Hangover 2) but unfortunately Travis started feeling sick so we decided to stay in. But if there was ever a place to be sick on vacation, this was it! We enjoyed a relaxing evening watching a movie on our TV and I attempted to take some night pictures of Bangkok.

Day 9
Travis was still feeling sick in the morning so we had to scrap our plans for a bike tour of the city. Instead we had a leisurely breakfast and continued watching movies. Now this felt like vacation! The Auzennes joined us in our hotel room for the afternoon and Travis was feeling well enough we decided to go souvenir shopping. We didn't find much but we learned that Bangkok malls are much bigger and crazier than how we normally shop! We headed back to our room and ordered room service again to take advantage of dinner with a view. We had a really nice evening with our friends and capped it off with a drink at the club lounge. The Auznennes were flying out to Phuket that night and we were leaving Bangkok early the next morning. It was a really nice way to end the trip!

In the mall... Yes, that's a "Star Back" right next to the Starbucks.

Chon gaew!

We really enjoyed Thailand. All the people were extremely friendly, the food was amazing and extremely cheap. Room service cost on average $7-9 a plate! Street restaurants were even cheaper. I think we tried to pack too much in to our trip, as we were pretty exhausted most days from all the touring around and sight-seeing, however I'm not sure what we would have cut out because I feel like we have a much better understanding for the 'real' Thailand than if we had stayed on a beach all week. I would like to go back, but on a much slower pace and timeline!

In case you're interested in planning a trip like ours, here's the links to our hotels:

Bangkok: Chatrium Riverside
Chiang Mai: Shangri-La
Krabi: Sofitel Phokeethra